Walking Wounded

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Tattered Pieces~ Mended Minds~Changed Lives


This is a twelve week lesson plan that I developed to help others

My name is Donetta.
I am not a professional counselor. 
I walked through seven years (and then some) of intensive family of origin based recovery. Addressing all forms of childhood abuse. Living under a parental curse seven generations. Some how getting freed from it.  These are some of the things that helped me in the restoration of my soul/mind/body.  The Lord has walked with me all of my days He knew me and kept me.Although Gods presence was with me I only came to begin to know and understand who He is on my twentieth birthday in 1981.<>john 3:16<>


Do you struggle with a lie over your head?  “ You’ll never amount to anything…loser…no one will ever love you. ”
Are the effects of your youth stopping you from uncovering what you long to be?<>
Do you ask your self “ why am I this way?<> 
Do you find yourself saying “ How could I (they) be so stupid”!
Do you share with Paul when you read I do the things I don’t want to do and don’t’ do the things I want to do. Who can save me?  Praise be to God who... <>

Synopsis
Together learning some tools to help ourselves in the process of becoming new  

Lesson One~
Why?
Why am I?
Why are they?
What made us this way?
It's No Wonder.

Lesson Two
Choice and Consequences
Under the will of others
The triad of Rescuer/victim/offender
Free Choice

Lesson Three
Where?
Where was God?
Salvation free choice
Repentance and restoration

Lesson Four
The Lie
Uncovering the lie
How it got there


Lesson five 
Discover the truth
Who you are in Christ
Replace the lie

Lesson Six
The gates of your mind
Understanding
education
training up a child
practice

Lesson Seven
Feelings
A gift from God
Appropriate/Inappropriate
Manipulation verses Direct meeting of needs

Lesson Eight
Rage triad
Identifying the components of rage
Silent rage
Fight Flight
What do we do when others rage at us

Lesson Nine
Triad of sin
Stepping of of it
Our responsibility


Lesson 10
Becoming New verses the curse
Boundaries
Character training
Re-parenting
Affirmations

Lesson 11
Risk verses blind trust
Learning to trust God
Learning to build trust with others

Lesson 12
A pure Heart
Clean hands
Seeing myself through eyes of love
Seeing others through eyes of love

2 comments:

David Edward said...

wow, you are doing such great work, praise God for the insight He gives you. I also came to faith in 1981

Just Be Real said...

Thank you for sharing dear. Blessings.

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