- Grown up (little person in a big body )
Out of control
- Adult (Integrity, asking the precious child, protective, caring, committed, unconditional love, loyal)
Hint when and where your behaviors catch you being a "grown up" look to the Adult behavior that is opposing and do it. Apologize. own it! and go on. Look at those adult attributes some education is in order. HOW? for example do you negotiate?